Sat May 18
We all indulge in some or another relationship. We always push ourselves in a relationship and leave it with some misunderstandings or weak bonds and connections. We never try to do some efforts to make our bond grow and strong. We just leave everything and say goodbye. But lemme ask you where is your love? If you wished to say bye just like that then why you entered a relationship without thinking? The relationship goals are fun, I know but I can spoil many things if not handled well.
What is love for you? And why it is essential for a happy and successful relationship? If you looked at someone and got attracted to their looks and appearance then you are on the wrong track as it is not true love. It is attraction or infatuation. Nothing more than that. love is to never give up on each other. To forgive not forget. Love is to just stay with a single person at a time. Not dating two or three people at a time.
Love Makes Your Life Live.
If your love is true then you will not fall in love you will rise in love. What do you think that Laila Majnu was meant to be together? No, they stayed and loved each other and the most important thing they never gave up on each other till they slept forever in their lives.
So let’s talk about real relationship goals that will make you fall in love again and again with the same person. And you will never think about leaving each other.
Trust That Will Build Your Love And Strong Bond
No relationship success without trust. Trust is the most important thing in any relationship. Be loyal. If you feel that he/she doesn’t trust on you then try to gain their trust and so that you will make your relationship strong. Trusting doesn’t mean that you will not question. You will. But healthily. And trusting your partner will make you rely on them blindly. You will never leave a loyal person and by trusting you will hold your relationship for a longer period.
Build more than one relationship
You are not only couples and are supposed to do all the romantic things and relationship-oriented things every time. Expand your bond and relationship. You can make your partner best friend, husband or wife, and many other relationships. You act like kids sometimes. You will get to know your partner each and every side. And achieving this relationship goal you will surely get a successful and strong bond. You will create a better understanding. And you will enjoy your relationship.
Make them feel special
Try to make them feel special and wanted. Plan surprises or acknowledge them. Appreciate them for their work or something they do for you that makes you feel happy. If you will make your partner wanted he or she will do everything to make you happy. And therefore you will create a cycle with this that once they will do something well you will do something better for them to make them happy. So don’t miss any chance. Plan for a long drive, movie dates, clubbing, and hangouts.
Hard times will test your love
Never fight or argue in a hard time with your partner. Stay together. Support each other. This will make your relation strong. You both will have to fight with problems equally, with each other’s support, and for each other. Make this a rule that nothing is possible without the support of your partner. Hard and tough time is something that either creates your bond strong or either breaks it down. So, in short, it is the perfect time to test your bond, build your bond, or either break your bond. Therefore take advantage of this time strengthen your relationship and love.
Become Stairs For Your Partner’s Dream
Everyone’s dream is their life. Everyone wants to achieve it and live their dream once. And many a time we notice people having issues in balancing their dream and relationship. And this happens because of the level of immaturity we show and create a barrier in front of our partner in achieving his dream. If you don’t help her/him then you also don’t deserve to be with him/her. Be the stairs and support your partner in achieving success and accomplishing their dream. This makes your partner feel very enthusiastic and if he/she fails they will eventually win you and your love. And if they succeed you will win all their achievements credit. Be supportive. Hold his/her hand and take her/him to the dream.
Respecting your partner will make you feel in love again. The dignity of the relationship will be maintained and once you will start respecting you will never ignore your partner and you will never abuse her or him. You will never show violence towards them. This is respect. You will never make them cry. And ultimately you will get immense pleasure of being with them.
Give them independence
Once you start bounding your partner they will get irritated and this will result in that they may leave you. Have trust in them. And leave them to fly high in the sky. And give them the level of freedom they desire for. Remember you can’t bound love. Love is free like air. And if you try to bound it, it will surely go away. Have faith in your love and trust your partner that they will never do anything wrong with you. So leave them free. But yes not alone. Giving freedom doesn’t mean time to leave them alone. It means standing behind and letting them walk before you.
Do some funny things
Tease him/her. Make him/her laugh and cuddle with you. Do some pranks or crack some good jokes on them. And yes do not forget cracking jokes is different and taunting is different. Do not mix these two concepts. And yes never taunt in fun. It may hurt your partner’s feelings. Cuddle a lot and play with your partner. This will create lifetime memories. Do something unexpected to make them laugh. And yes just show them that you love them in between. Play, run here and there, or you can also go for amusement parks to have fun.
So if you want to live with your love forever then follow all these relationship goals. Give your relationship a new strength and growth. And do not forget everything is impossible without love. Love is important to sustain the relationship.
Love your partner before someone else starts to love him/her.